What does it mean to be "born again".
No amount of going to church, no amount of Bible reading, no amount of praying, no amount of giving, no amount of good works.
We do these things not to get God to do something for us.
It is because of what God has done for us.
All you can do is take the first step of faith and surrender.
Part 1:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WIz2YlrnI2c
Part 2:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V9Wua4HTtOI&feature=relmfu
-J.Meyer