There’s a big difference: Reconciliation means to re-establish the relationship, but resolution means to resolve every issue by coming to agreement on everything.
That's simply not going to happen. It does not matter if both of you love the Lord or in love with each other; there are some things you'll never agree on, because God has wired each of us differently.
But you can disagree without being disagreeable — that's called wisdom.
The Bible says in James 3, “Wisdom is peace loving and courteous. It allows discussion and it is willing to yield to others.”
The Bible also says it's wise to compromise. You can have unity without uniformity. You can walk hand-in-hand without seeing eye-to-eye. You can have reconciliation without resolution of every issue.
When we focus on the relationship, the issues often become insignificant.
This is my challenge to you: In a world filled with conflict, war, prejudice, violence, partisanship, and broken relationships, commit to becoming an agent of reconciliation.
It is no accident that the first letter of P.E.A.C.E represents God’s goal for us to be peacemakers.
It’s always more rewarding to resolve the conflict than to dissolve the relationship.
-R. Warren
